During the first part of this month, America will find itself with a new Commander in Chief. This person will be called to guide our nation out of some serious turmoil – both abroad and homegrown.

No matter how prepared either gentleman may feel he is; I imagine he is going to have to hit the floor running and make decisions with lightening speed.  In this example, leadership is being granted through the power of our votes.  But our new President will have to assume that mantle and make it his own.

It is my belief that you are never really granted leadership – you assume it.  It’s doubtful any of us will find yourself in a position of such power as our elected leader, but there will always be times when we are called upon to take charge, make a decision, move!

I am reminded of the men and women on United Airlines Flight 93 who quickly assessed the situation and followed Todd Beamer’s fateful words, “Let’s roll.”  Boarding that flight, they had no idea they were going to be thrust into such a critical event but they assumed command and saved many, many lives.

Our troops – men and women as young as 18 – assume leadership positions in radical situations every day. They may have been granted a rank, but they assume control. As we spend time with family and friends during the holidays, we hold these heroes in our hearts and minds and offer a prayer of thanksgiving for their continued safety and sacrifice.

Comparing our situations against these two examples, do you feel ready to assume a leadership position in your country, your workplace, your home? Rarely are we called upon to do so in such defining times as mentioned previously. However, during these difficult economic times, I’m going to suggest we assume a leadership role that will do quite a bit to change an attitude, a mindset. Here are my top three:

Assume a positive outcome
Don’t be part of the gloom and doom. Sure things are tough – are they tougher than Flight 93?  Persevere and be part of the crowd who makes opportunities during tough times. History tells us certain businesses thrive during hard economic times – why not yours? Why not mine?

Assume a positive intention.
Okay, your candidate didn’t win. Let’s back the winner and stop the polarization and back-biting. Let’s assume he ran because he wanted to make a difference – not make your life miserable. Let’s do the same with our co-workers and our most difficult prospects and clients. Everyone is doing the best they can at that given moment – let’s cut some slack and give the benefit once in a while.

Make a tough decision.
What is the one thing you have been postponing that you know will affect a change either in your personal life, your business or your attitude?  Do it – don’t wait for the next guy to move first. Roll.

Leadership is rarely granted but it can always be assumed. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving – we have much to be grateful for this holiday and we, as always, are very grateful for you.